Shame

People who feel ashamed, are the only ones who deserve it.

But in order to communicate with them, anyone must act ashamed. Willingness to play a shameful role, even if you feel nothing, is a valuable, time tested, communications strategy.

Especially in fucking Asia. LOL.

Knowledge of oneself is scary. Everybody hides.

Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, so if you don't want to piss people off, don't lay their thoughts on a table, even if you know what they don't know they are thinking...