"What do you mean, when you say you love me?"

"I don't know what you mean when you say I love you. What do you love? How would you break it down?"

Love is not an object. It's a state of the subject.
Desire
Pity
Protectiveness
Worship
Amusement
Bemusement
Those describe me, not you.
If I say I love you, it's really about me.
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I always tell you directly when I notice something about you.
I think I've over done it with others.

Paraphrased: "Should we change the way we handle each other?"

It should happen when we're quite bored of everything each other has to offer. I believe in effortless progress.