A friend commented that I seem to have exacting standards for intimate partners.
1) generally low urgency to be in intimate relationships - so reflection on the whys and wherefores prolly projects that "exacting standards" thing
2) oh but people are entertaining, let's talk about them
3) i don't have many ways to relste to most people... let me talk about emo thingsn!
4) i do miss having someone to go to bed with, but I only really think about it for that part of the day.
Otherwise, there's so much more in life to do..