2025-03-07 at

Blizzards and Butterflies

 Society progresses as the sum of its parts. There are many parts. We will never know which parts matter. We just smack everything that looks like an opportunity. Few will be known for pivotal roles in history. Every role is pivotal.

2025-03-06 at

Individual Happiness x Disease

I have met a lot of people who are pathological dependent on other people for their own happiness. I think, the common notion that it is healthy to have this dependency is ... yes, normal, but no, not aspirational. Also I find that theism provides a unique solution for such people, when they cannot find enough support from ordinary human neighbours.

Unpopular Relationship Advice

Here's some relationship advice :

1. Get out of any relationship where you don't have ( at least ) equity. If you hold 10% of the risk, you should have 10% control over the outcomes, for 10% of the upside.

2. Let's say you're bad at math. And you have no math friends. No worries. Follow your gut ( subconscious processing ), get out if it's a bad spot. I mean, what else do you have to go on? Of course, if you're smarter, you don't need to regress to your gut as often.

3. Let people burn. Unless, you've figured out what they're doing good for you. The alternative is they're doin you a bad. It's not your job, to teach them how to be good people.

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