You are going to say I am masking, ya 🤣

Don't like that la. A lot of people only have food, friends, fashion, art, and sex to look forward to. Lol

I call them plebs but I don't think they have options. It is an ordinary life. We should not be too eager to change the minds of unable people. 

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the liability of masked partners

I don't watch TV much, it's too slow. But I did spend many years watching TV on dates, as partners enjoyed it. This led me to understand that many people seek relationships where they can "unmask" in private, because their public social strategy depends on facades. I am good at facilitating comfort, but it is a pure expense to me - I am publicly vulnerable, and have little to unmask in private. So nowadays I aggressively filter against the trait of comfort seeking, in partnerships. 

SOFR, IORB, EFFR

 US monetary policy studies : 

• 1. Borrowers of cash, sell repurchase agreements (repos). Lenders of cash, buy repos. Repo sellers put down USTs as collateral. This market determines the Secured Overnight Financing Rate (SOFR).
• 2. The Fed lends to banks, charging Interest on Reserve Balances (IORB). Banks lend to banks, determining the Effective Fed Funds Rate (EFFR). 
• 3. Positive IORB-EFFR @ IOER spread, and positive IOER-SOFR spread, signify ample market liquidity.

heteronormative rejection trends

CW : sexual heteronormativity

Men and women reject prospective partners in different ways.

• Women withhold ANY contracts.
• Men withhold EXCLUSIVE contracts.

In both situations, we find reactions which range from graceful to chaotic. So it is meaningless to pin fragility in relationships on either gender.