incels

Chatted with a friend today about stereotypical issues in the cis-het dating market. Of course, you can switch the genders, for other types of couplings - this is a caricature.

1. BOY incels : WANT to be cuddled, but don't know how to make girls want to cuddle them; stabby guesswork often results in guys "making moves" which strike girls as either ludicrous or traumatic; CHEAT code answer ... ask a girl what makes her feel loved, then either admit you don't want to/know how to do it, or do it and ask if she feels loved ... if she says she doesn't, then you may do philosophy together and review the specification; 

2. GIRL incels : WANT to feel loved, but don't know how to make boys want to love them; half the time, girls are just waiting for rain, and not making moves; CHEAT code answer ... tell a boy how you want to feel, AND what tends to help you feel that way ... if they say they won't/can't/shan't do it, then you may do philosophy together and ask the client why they are avoiding the simplest way to get what they want;

In both cases, DON'T even bother with people who won't answer the question and discuss the specifications, goals, and ways to reach goals unless you're rich and like gambling with time/money/etc.

Not a very developed set of ideas, but enough to get started on scripting a play, or something like that.