... a case of (A) Getting annoyed because A's opinion is ignored ...
Me : I did this today
A : you know, you should do that instead
Me : I don't plan on doing that
A : why did you ask my opinion?
Me : I didn't ask your opinion
A : I am annoyed
Me : I am not annoyed
... vs. (B) getting annoyed because B receives an unsolicited opinion ...
B : I did this today
Me : you should do that instead
B : I don't want solutions, I want to be heard
Me : you were heard, and the solution is provided for free
B : I didn't ask your opinion
Me : I am not annoyed
B : I am annoyed
So you see ... the problem is not who is giving unwanted opinions ... the problem is ... who gets annoyed lol.
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