What does it mean to manage relationship resource allocations, strictly?

 I think very few people actually manage their relationship resource allocations strictly.

For example, if 4.5 hours per week are allocated to my wife, and [ outside of that 4.5 hours ] someone asks me :

• - "do you love your wife?"
• - "can you buy a loaf of bread for your wife?"
• - "have you seen your wife today?"

Then it is highly probable that the following responses may result :

• - "huh?"
• - "wasn't thinking about it"
• - "why are you asking me this at this time?"
• - "no resources to find answer"
• - "answer unknown"

This is proper management of time. Or memory, or memory-time, whatever you want to call it. (Memory is a spatial dimension.)

Of course this applies to all business projects in general, including social relationships.