dissatisfaction and its discontents

Conscious conceptual appreciation, that others will not always do what you want, is merely the beginning of reeducation. 

Beyond this, one has to modify the subconscious expectation, whose disappointment results in conscious dissatisfaction with undesirable behaviour as a whole. 

That is to say, you will always be bothered by other people, until you expect them them to be irritating. Then they will simply be boring. And if they still bother you, it simply means you still entertain too many unmodified subconscious expectations.