( from discussion ) Here's the cascade of filters I use when shopping for new friends on matching apps.
1st pass : is this someone I would want to cuddle with ? ( not a question of fuckability )
2nd pass : is this someone I can have productive conversations with ? ( text or meetups, usually meetups are to filter out fake profiles )
3rd pass : is this someone whose emotional economics are compatible with mine ? ( stress testing of modi operandi, reduction of filters, checking of triggers, word choice, necessary and sufficient conditions for social relations, etc. )
4th pass : material logistics / economics
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