A lot of social psyches require another personable individual to :
- validate their speech/
make them feel heard/
hold their space/
contextualise their social hypotheses/
affirm their sense of identity
I find that I make do with a lower bar ... since most of my work is not relatable to most people, I have made do by publishing my journals on a daily basis. It is not necessary for any responses to be received, and I satisfy my self of social identity through publication.
Therefore, in relationships with individuals, anyone coming to me with an offer to provide ( list of similar offerings above ) is going to face a situation of very limited demand, unless their work tends to overlap with my own.
Anyway, I guess there are other aspects of intimacy to be exchanged with social partners, so dating continues to be fun even though I rarely have intellectual subjects to discuss with dates in technical detail. 😎
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