Avoiding Disappointment : advice most people need

 Tips to avoid disappointment, and unnecessary sadness which will limit your productivity :

• 1. Your memory is not reliable - don't expect it to be. Install guardrails.
• 2. Your instincts are not cultured - don't expect them to be. Review culture frequently.
• 3. Your society is not safe - don't expect it to be. Make it more what you wish.
• 4. Other people face the same limitations 1,2,3 - don't expect otherwise. Work together to address common concerns.