serious relationships

Many people looking for a serious relationship, can't handle one. But that is simply because "serious" is a weasel word meaning "define it later". That is not a serious proposition.

A serious relationship is based on facts, terms, conditions, exit clauses, underwriting, incentives, penalties, diversified risks, control mechanisms, documentation, and execution. 

"Agree to love me unconditionally", is a fools errand. At least, say you want a foolish relationship, not a serious one. Hah