corporate games

Skill and preference. I consider myself good at games, but I have little intrinsic interest in most games. Whereas, I have friends who love games, but don't seem to know how to play. 

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If you don't want someone else to lose, then if they want you to lose, you are undefended and will lose faster

So in a competition :

1. Wanting to win, is the same as wanting everyone else to lose, except when it helps you win.

So either you get with the program. Or quit

Because everyone else needs you to lose due to rule 1.