I shared, from my limited experience. In many cases, but not all, men misunderstand what will make a woman happy.
I've found over the years that some people just want an emotional fixer, and no amount of sex can fix their emotions, so it comes down to how much free head therapy I want to do for this person.
If I don't want to spend time being a therapist, then regardless of how much they respond to sexual advances, I'm better off a avoiding sex with them until I can figure out that they don't have attachment issues (which in my world is: you ain't gonna get stuck on me, and get in the way of my getting my own work done because you need support).
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This has been an issue I've encountered in many women I've met, unwittingly enmooned, intentionally befriended, dated, or shortly interacted with over 25 years.
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