What is a "serious" relationship?
I run into this question a lot. Some people define it as (A) a feeling of commitment or interest, but I prefer the notion of (B) explicit terms and conditions.
So my serious relationships, are not what most people consider serious relationships. And vice versa.
I think commonly, folks adopt model A, but mix in a bit of model B with it. I think this is fundamentally contentious. You cannot commit to both terms and conditions, and feelings which may waiver. Although it is SHIPPED as a mix of A and B, it reduces to A by priority.
Most people, to me, are not serious about relationships :)
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