dumbfuck detective

Sometimes I forget that people I'm talking to are dumb and will simply parrot phrases I am using. But they are getting angrier, so I need to go on an adventure to figure out when+why they are angry. 

Often enough, the main reason is an inability to process text without emotional effect. Dumbfuck trait 1

This may be compounded by inability to become disturbed without broadcasting a change in state. This may be due to being verbally unaware of the change. DFT 2

This may be further due to inability to analyse emotional and cognitive states in detail. DFT 3

Usually once I have alerted myself to DFTs 1-3, I can start strategising remedial action. Preventive action is possible if I am more conservative in the first place. Actively avoiding conservativeness is often a lazy strategy to detect dumbfucks. However, there are of ways to work harder in the detection of dumbfucks, if one cares to avoid hurting them in the process of discovery.